Great Sex after 40
or are We just more realistic? Do We hold our partners less accountable for what We want? Have We done it all and just are content with what is? I am sure We all still have our fantasies of the perfect partner, the perfect Sex romp. By now I think We have excepted the fact that the porns star and our lover are as far apart as the stars themselves. Should We settle for whatever We have or can get? To a point. If You are with a partner You have been with a long time and have a solid relationship yet they have physically changed to the point that they are not sexually appealing to You anymore, should You settle for what you have? Great Sex although 90% a state of mind is still a physical attraction I think. At least to Me. If You like a custom 68 GTO, a showroom quality restored one might not be realistic to You anymore but it shouldn’t be a rusted out bucket either. Nice rims, paint and a decent running engine would still make it fun to drive.
Can You ever really have a great relationship if You are not at least 90% satisfied with what You have. You may feel all the love in the world for Your Lover but if You are hesitant in the area of Sex won’t that eventually cause resentment and fantasy for what You really want?
At this stage of life You or Your Lover may not ever get back to that ideal weight, or totally loose that puggy belly, certain things will have sagged and a full head of hair may be a distant memory. That should not stop You both from wanting to look and feel your best. If for no other reason than for yourself. Once happy with yourself it will carry over to Your partner. New hair style, new wardrobe, some make up, eat right, some exercise if just brisk walks together. Once You start to feel better You can be a part of Your partner feeling better.
Finally have great Sex after 40 , just do it. If You both consent and are willing ,what is wrong with whatever You can dream up? Remember life is to short to waste following others expectations and rules. It all starts with a desire to want to enjoy life again. Before long You’ll be enjoying long talks and each others company like You used to before LIFE came along.
Don’t expect , don’t follow unrealistic fantasy and put the others needs ahead of Yours and life can be fun again……..
The costume above can still look hot on anyone – It’s Your attitude that gives it appeal – Try it
