2009 Bedroom Resolutions to save a marriage – Fire up the boring Sex this year with something new
Say what You want, a boring, dull Sex life is the fastest way to a break up. Sometimes something as simple as trying harder in bed can make all the difference.
Break one of your own taboos
This resolution regards any rules or taboos you and/or your lover have imposed on yourselves regarding sex. Be it sex in public, sex at the in-laws/parents, anal sex, oral sex or any other thing that is a ”rule” which is just “there,” make 2009 the year to break it.
Communicate better and more regularly with your partner
This resolution seems basic, but, in fact, it could be the most important ingredient to a good sex life. When is the last time you discussed sex with your partner?
Spend more time on foreplay
This point is given out countless times, but insufficient foreplay is still women’s greatest complaint when it comes to sex. It is a fact that women who get at least 20 minutes of foreplay are 80% more likely to have an orgasm. Let’s look at that fact another way: 80% of women who get less than 20 minutes of foreplay do not have an orgasm — don’t let your lover be one of them.
Play sex games
Games are a fun way to change the way you make love (at least for one night). Just get a bottle of wine, bring out the games and get into it; they are fun, sexy and different. Games also encourage good communication and the disclosure of sexy secrets. [source]
Spice it up , if it’s important enough to try
