Cheating, is it right or wrong ?  First off there is a big difference between cheating and having an affair. Cheating could be a moment of vulnerability and affair is a total disrespect of your spouse. s a Man I can say I have met many fellow men who had wives that I can’t help but think ” Why the fuck did You wait so long to cheat ? “  People cheat for various personal reasons and is hard to judge other. Sometimes We cheat to fill a need our spouse no longer fills for whatever reason, We cheat because it’s easier than keeping the flame alive, and some cheat just because it is their nature, unable to commit to the hard work it takes for a successful relationship. Often We cheat out of “survival cheating” because We stick to our responsibilities yet have needs that do not seem important to our spouses. Needs that in given time can make even the most monogamous person struggle with what they have been taught as right and personal needs. Than along came the Internet. Just remember whatever You do online it is all about keeping it in check, not to let fantasy get in the way of reality.

Cheating Wives & Husbands… Why They Say They Cheated!

Recent studies reveal that 45-55% of married women and 50-60% of married men engage in cheated on their spouse at some time or another during their relationship. What these findings suggest is that approximately one half of all married men and women do seek intimacy outside of their committed relationships. But what does this really mean and why are the number of men and women having extramarital affairs so high?

The question is always why. Why do people do what they do, what makes them cheat on their partners. While the reasons may differ from individual to individual, people cheat because … are you ready? Because they want to!

Before we go there, here are some of the common reasons given for why men and women are unfaithful.

Top 10 Reasons Men Say They Cheat

1. He doesn’t love her anymore
2. She doesn’t turn you on anymore
3. Women let us
4. Your girlfriend is a nag
5. Opportunity
6. Boosts your ego
7. You can get away with it
8. It’s challenging and exciting
9. She cheated on you
10. She doesn’t put out anymore

Top 10 Reasons Women Say They Cheat

1. Revenge for your cheating
2. Exit strategy
3. Bedroom boredom
4. You’re emotionally unavailable
5. Feeling neglected/ignored/under-appreciated
6. Lack of intimacy
7. Revenge or payback for past wrongs (not because you cheated)
8. Self-esteem
9. Being a Bad Girl
10. Not enough sex

This may come as a complete surprise, but most extramarital affair statistics show that cheating is not about sex. What then, is the main factor that causes infidelity? One should pay attention to the reason most people find intimacy with someone outside of their marriage is because their emotional needs are not being met. Yes, it is true that in most cases of infidelity it’s about wanting to feel emotionally connected to someone.

If you’re spending more time away from home, working, hanging out with your friends or immersing yourself in a new hobby, your partner may begin to feel lonely. Your spouse of significant other may feel unloved or emotionally disconnected. And if you aren’t giving them the attention they desire, they may go looking elsewhere for it. This is one of the most common reasons for infidelity.

In the end, “people cheat because they want to.”

Unfortunately, most people only see the symptoms and thus address them. Long after the damage is done, and intimacy is broken, the relationship begins to manifest the tell tale signs of cheating.

Perhaps you believe your noticing the cheating spouse signs or you have some gut feeling that your husband or wife is stepping out on you. There’s only one way to be sure. Habitual Cheating should not be tolerated. You see it often, especially today, people who have a history of cheating on their spouse over and over again. They choose to violate fidelity even when they promise to change.

Therefore it’s important to know your partner’s history before you entering into any long term relationship. Why did there previous relationships end? If cheating was the reason, consider the warning. [source]